- May 11, 2012
AND WE SHALL ALL LOOK UP THE MEANING OF PSYCOPATH TO SEE IF OUR PARTNER HAS ANY OF THOSE TRAITS,IT'S VERY HARD TO HEAL FROM ANY KIND OF D.V EMOTIONAL,SPIRITUAL,PHYSICAL AND IF YOU HAVE NO FAMILY OR FRIENDS THE TRUTH IS YOU ARE AFRAID TO MOVE FORWARD ONCE INVOLVED WITH A ABUSER ....AND SOME PEOPLE DO JUDGE WOMEN OR DON'T WANT TO GET INVOLVED AND YOU CAN'T BLAME THEM THE PERSON HAS TO BE READY AND TIRED OF THE NONSENSE HOPEFULLY BEFORE IT'S TOO LATE......YOU CAN NOT HELP ANYONE UNLESS THEY HELP THEMSELVESAs for what I wanted to express I did not intend to discourage that alternative or set that tone... We should be optimistic I think we are each on a journey. Even the most miserable people have friends and support one another though many other things about them are not quite the way they would like and they get along good for the most part because they resonate with one another so there is always someone for everyone but we just have to find our link I'll say. I don't think collaborating is IMPOSSIBLE because we are different but it is something women in that situation have to truly consider and take precaution with because it can make matters much worse.
I don't feel women will always be looking for love in all the wrong places. I finally realized that I need to focus on loving myself and that led to other actualizations. If we want a compatible mate it will be possible, I think only when love is emanated from within...and when we decide we "have" to know ourselves and stop looking everywhere else but in ourselves.
Sometimes it happens that a caring soul takes the time to reach out and engage with someone who needs healing and show them that someone does care about and love them despite their challenges in life and always will because we are one. People have been traumatized so much sometimes not beyond hope as you said but into a place where they are afraid to ask for help; they feel people will be harsh with them, I have seen it here... so sometimes it takes those of us who are healers to set the tone and start a relationship/friendship/ i.e mentor whatever lol with someone that we can possibly help and be a positive influence in their life. I believe there is always hope and it is always worth it