- Sep 3, 2011
Cordially, I did not suggest men take care of other men's children. Women need to do what they have to do that they can live with to take care of themselves and not let anyone tell them different. "Oh I love you and I wanna take care of you"...NO!!!...has to be the answer because when she wants to move on or things get to where she wants to part ways or he may blow the whistle; she should not have to look for how she will survive. That just doesn't make sense but in the society we live in there is a large amount of people (not all) who say men are the "providers" and it is so not true. I feel those are men who want control and who are dominant perhaps. I had a man tell me my place is in the kitchen, men like that smh.Here's another elephant in the room.
How many men will voluntarily take care of the children of other men?
The answer is FEW.
It wouldn't be rational (in accordance with the principals of self-interest and personal material benefit), resources are scarce, and it is contrary to biological imperatives.