Black Relationships : WHY IS MARRIAGE IMPORTANT TO YOU?

Bootzey

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In court it is just as difficult to divide things from a common law marriage as with the piece of paper. Also, My ex-wife and I got a divorce for $145 because we did it ourselves. There is nothing difficult about a divorce if you know what to do.
That wasn't my point. My point marriage is a public and legal commitment. Living with someone may seem like your getting all the benefits of marriage, but no matter what anybody says, it is not the same. And married people will bear witness.
 

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What does this have to do with the questions I asked you? You answered the first but not the most important. Why does G-D'S law and word have to be rectified or made simple when G-D is perfect and all knowing. Am I to understand from your answer that G-D makes mistakes and His word has to be rectified/corrected? Say you are not putting human qualities on THE MOST HIGH.:nono::nono::nono::nono::nono::nono::nono::
I did mention why there is a difference in the law
The reason why christians were freed from the jewish law is because the law was a way to keep people moral until Jesus came. When Jesus came he simplified the law for us ,because it is not the keeping of the law that makes us moral but the reason why we keep the law that makes us moral-- which should be to do the will of God because we love him.
but I will try to explain further

When humanity fell into sin God gave us many laws to keep us moral (including laws for marriage), because the did not have Jesus yet to give them an example on how to live morally.This was possibly part of God's curse for humanity falling into sin. When Jesus came he freed us from all these laws by just simplifying them to the basic essentials which captures the spirit or essence of all God 's laws.
I believe that when Jesus freed us from the law this was another sense in which he was our savior, because he saved us from having to keep a myriad of laws.
 

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That wasn't my point. My point marriage is a public and legal commitment. Living with someone may seem like your getting all the benefits of marriage, but no matter what anybody says, it is not the same. And married people will bear witness.
I agree 110% !!!

There just isn't the same feeling in a relationship where 2 people are just living together verses a marriage .

The reason for this maybe because God blesses and creates a spiritual bond between 2 people in a marriage, but not in relationships outside of marriages.
 

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I agree 110% !!!

There just isn't the same feeling in a relationship where 2 people are just living together verses a marriage .

The reason for this maybe because God blesses and creates a spiritual bond between 2 people in a marriage, but not in relationships outside of marriages.
I was with you up to the God point. But I understand what you mean.
 
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