Black People : Random and Hypothetical

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Suppose you have a best friend of the opposite sex who you have been friends with for year and they end up getting married, and their spouse calls you and tells you to not to be talking to them anymore, yet your best friend of the opposite sex keeps calling you especially in the wee hours, often and almost daily. What would you do? How would you handle that circumstance?
 

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Suppose you have a best friend of the opposite sex who you have been friends with for year and they end up getting married, and their spouse calls you and tells you to not to be talking to them anymore, yet your best friend of the opposite sex keeps calling you especially in the wee hours, often and almost daily. What would you do? How would you handle that circumstance?
put yourself in his position - hes always gonna view you as suspect
 

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Suppose you have a best friend of the opposite sex who you have been friends with for year and they end up getting married, and their spouse calls you and tells you to not to be talking to them anymore, yet your best friend of the opposite sex keeps calling you especially in the wee hours, often and almost daily. What would you do? How would you handle that circumstance?
LOL....I'm going through this right now

However this "best friend" is also my ex-fiancée. Mind you he's also my best friend still.

Now, this situation is difficult for me and I try and tell my ex that we shouldn't be talking, but he insists on getting in contact with me. I tell him that it isn't fair to his new wife and if him and I were married I wouldn't want him to continue carry on a friendship with his ex.

That's kind of awkward. Thoughts would be running through my head like, "does this person still have feelings for them."

NOW, as far as if you and this person (assuming that this is you) were ONLY friends and nothing more. I would still take inconsideration for the other spouse. This is THEIR marriage.

Why is this person calling at "wee hours"? Sounds like they are trying to hide you (or whomever) from their spouse and that in itself isn't right. They should be honest with their spouse. And doing this sneaking around business would merit anyone spouse to think there was something fishy going on with this "opposite-sex friend"...

If I were you (whomever) I'd tell your (whomever's) "friend" that you would still like to be friends but do not want to get in the way of their marriage situation.

A best friend is not on the same level as a husband or wife...
 
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