Black Relationships : Question for the Brothers

Nia Maishani

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Don't you mean AFTER your divorce?

Get the story straight, now. :nono:

I just find that one difficult to believe, for I've only known one Brother to tell me he's been with less than 10, and he was only like 25 or so at the time and had only had one mate. I know several men who started after high school, or even during or after college, but once they started, they sort of went on a rampage. I know WOMEN who's belt notches number upwards of 100! YOUNG women! Amazes me.

But don't get ya feathers ruffled; I commend ya if you truly are that minimally "at risk". (that is, if you are being truthful)

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Nia Maishani

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To be frank, I would say that my decision was primarily based on ONE bad experience. My most recent experience, that is.

The Brother in the picture is not someone I have dated. He is a well-known scholar whom I had the priviledge of meeting.

I already told ya Kem, it is a one-digit number; that's all ya get.

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Nia Maishani

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Uh...

Why would I stalk someone I want to ERASE from my past? I DID move on, and IMMEDIATELY. I think you may be inferring that I fell in love, was "used" and then "dumped", but that is not what happened. It is way deeper and way dirtier and way uglier than that. What it boiled down to was unabashed betrayal and deceit. The lesson learned was that I had contributed to the hardship by giving him what he wanted yet not getting what I needed, in return. Therefore, I was not much different from all the "others" I discovered he cheated with.

Hence, the fact that I now dare to be different.
 
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