She has gotten a Immediate Temporary Restraining Order against him. Temporary until she goes before a judge. He will be removed from the home. Should already be gone.
Black women don't want to take these type of actions. We hate getting the system involved in our mans life. She tried and it didn't work. She and her children will be fine.
She filed for a 2 year restraining order yesterday.
Thank you Sister Destee for listening and replying. I did talk to her about being nieve(sp). I gave her my NO FEAR talk. She's got 3 kids, 2 girls. You don't got time for fear, you have to protect your kids from this man. Don't be afraid of what he may do.Big hugs for Sister Destee. I'm thinking how I haven't discussed her situation with anyone in RL. Talking about it here really helped me help her.
I am so so so so soooooo proud of you! Thank You! ...
We hear talk of helping each other, helping our own, etc., but actually doing it ... takes more than talk!
It requires sacrifice, determination ... a host of things most are not willing to give, in spite of their talk.
We are not all built the same. Everyone cannot do what you have just done. We're simply not qualified.
I don't know that I could Sister. My patience is short and I just don't know if I could do it.
Even my own children, I can't hardly stand hearing about their love lives. I don't care. Live your life.
I don't want to hear the ins and outs of their relationships. I'm just not interested.
But you have to be interested in another's life, personal relationships, to do the job you did.
This is all about a young woman's personal choices getting her into trouble.
I am so glad that you have the Spirit to do this work, and are so great at it, that the youth listen.
That is a combination that is hard to come by as well.
One might be willing to do the work, but what if no one listens to them ... it will be for naught.
But you got the young lady to listen, not only listen, but act ... that is God.
I can't always get my own children to do those things in combination with each other.
Amazing Sister! ...
Now a young Family, young Mother and children, have a fighting chance of keeping their home and peace.
This is a lot Sister IFE ... bringing tears to my eyes.
Even her Mother said no more ... but you kept on believing things could be better for her.
Amazing. Thank You! ...
I think you should talk about these types of situations. Let the world know there are folk trying to help.
If talking about it encouraged you, then that is even more reason to continue doing so.
We did nothing but listen ... you did all of the heavy lifting ...
Thanks again Sister! Love You!