Black People : How do you ignore or not hate the self-haters?

ManicRaider

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Edit: Thanks for the chat Angela22. Believe it or not, I'm having a sort of similar conversation on another forum about a completely different issue, and everyone is basically telling me the same thing: "Stop worrying about what other people think". I'll try.
 

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Why do you think they matter?:10500:
I think about younger, more impressionable people (kids, teens, young adults) who might be influenced by someone like that. It can cause them to become like that and it'll cause them to internalize it which will be a bigger problem as they become older.
 

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I think about younger, more impressionable people (kids, teens, young adults) who might be influenced by someone like that. It can cause them to become like that and it'll cause them to internalize it which will be a bigger problem as they become older.
Well if it's not your children, that's not really your responsibility for how they turn out. From my point of view, it seems as if you're taking on too much, only destroying your peace of mind for people who get off by putting down black folk and making us upset.
 

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Well if it's not your children, that's not really your responsibility for how they turn out
That's true.

From my point of view, it seems as if you're taking on too much, only destroying your peace of mind for people who get off by putting down black folk and making us upset.
Well, what should I do about it? I know some people say it never bothered them, but there are some people (like me) who it bothered at some point. How does one get over it?
 
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