Black Relationships : How do Black guys feel about virgins?

IFE

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I am a 25 yr old virgin. So far the guys I dated/talked to ,when they found out I was a virgin they disappeared. For some reason guys only want to wife women that have been around the block a time or two. I am trying to stay strong ( waiting for marriage) but its hard. I don't want to be alone forever. I just want some insight on this.
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Liberty

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I am a 25 yr old virgin. So far the guys I dated/talked to ,when they found out I was a virgin they disappeared. For some reason guys only want to wife women that have been around the block a time or two. I am trying to stay strong ( waiting for marriage) but its hard. I don't want to be alone forever. I just want some insight on this.
It sounds to me like those guys were respecting your life choice. Respecting that you aren't about casual sex, or sex before marriage. They didn't mislead you into thinking they were someone they weren't. There are men out there that believe as you do. Don't compromise your values. And, be thankful that the guys who couldn't live up to your standards didn't waste your time.
 

blacklove4ever

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It sounds to me like those guys were respecting your life choice. Respecting that you aren't about casual sex, or sex before marriage. They didn't mislead you into thinking they were someone they weren't. There are men out there that believe as you do. Don't compromise your values. And, be thankful that the guys who couldn't live up to your standards didn't waste your time.
I am a 25 yr old virgin. So far the guys I dated/talked to ,when they found out I was a virgin they disappeared. For some reason guys only want to wife women that have been around the block a time or two. I am trying to stay strong ( waiting for marriage) but its hard. I don't want to be alone forever. I just want some insight on this.
Hi Quokka007, Just be yourself and never do things just to please someone else. Good riddance, The time will come when you look back and you will be able to pat yourself on the shoulder and hold your head high, cause you did what you wanted - when you wanted. Peace!
 

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