Black Women : He thinks You are actually his property, I wonder why?

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I am a:pi sunglasses: old school brutha, and since back in da day, I have often heard a black man in the heat of a argument:argue: tell his woman, wife, whatever, that 'she's his woman, or something to the effect that he' owns her, etc., I have listen to a many abusive man declare to a woman that he somehow owns her, etc. Whether they are married or not, They can just be friends, just two people in a monogamist relationship, etc. Yeah... Dudes have said it, :nono:"you my go*#^* woman! And you ain't going nowhere! And he will fight, etc. Now.. "what makes this man think that he in someway owns you?" Even I understand that marriage is not ownership of another etc. But what makes a man say that even if you are husband and wife, that you "belong" to him? I am sure that many women are thinking and saying the same thing regarding a man, etc. ! But, does marriage in your view give a person somehow ownership whether physically or mentally over the person he or she is married to, etc.? Or is this person:console: acting out as a want to be control freak? What do you think?
 

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Well woman does he in someway own you, just because you are in a relationship with him? Or why do men and women think this way? later....
 

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Bride Price - Dowry- Man and wife.
Marriage is a Contract (covenant) in which the man Pledges (wedlock) to take care of the woman (ask for her hand) and her offsprings, by taking her from her family into his. Her primary job is provide offspring.
Bride Price ....man pays to woman family for right to her womb and labour.
Dowry....woman contribution to new family
Man and wife....the man status remains the same, he takes care of the woman - husband(house dweller).

Woman as Property
Up until sometime in the 1800 in the West, the man in most respects owned the woman, the further back you go in time the more true in most parts of the world that was..... except in Africa.
Still today in many parts of the world the man still have the rights of the woman as his prerogative in effect he owns the woman.
This type of ownership does not exclude her human rights

This all began to change with the growing popularity of Romanticism and Romantic Marriage in the West.
 

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This is a lesson most will have to learn the hard way. This is the caucasoids way of thinking. Freedom to be was treated with a lot of importance back when we were in our right minds. Man and woman should benefit from each other when they come together. It should never be one sided nor fruitless. A successful relationship between men and women is when you both go away satisfied and thankful for the experience you had together. For the lessons learned and growth and development you were able to harvest from it. By working together you’ll learn how to better maximize your strengths and minimize your shortcomings. A relationship between a man and woman should always bear fruit, and not the bitter sort either.
 

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This is a lesson most will have to learn the hard way. This is the caucasoids way of thinking. Freedom to be was treated with a lot of importance back when we were in our right minds. Man and woman should benefit from each other when they come together. It should never be one sided nor fruitless. A successful relationship between men and women is when you both go away satisfied and thankful for the experience you had together. For the lessons learned and growth and development you were able to harvest from it. By working together you’ll learn how to better maximize your strengths and minimize your shortcomings. A relationship between a man and woman should always bear fruit, and not the bitter sort either.
Why exactly are saying this is a "Caucasoid" way of thinking? I am not understanding your logic here using this analogy, etc. Are you somehow inplying that black man do not think, nor act in this way, etc.?
 
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