- Apr 2, 2011
Trauma...that is what is causing it. The abuser and the victim normally have experienced violence in the household at a young age. Insecurities fuel it, and power and control keep the flames going. In order to stop this, we must address both the victim and the abuser. Not minimizing the abuse, but giving help and hope to those who abuse.It's still happening today as it has for decades, etc. Many (Not All Black Men Remind You.) Black men are emotionally and physically beating black women , etc. While claiming to love this woman he's verbally, emotionally, and physically abusing, etc. Yet, many abused black women are staying within such hellacious destructive relationships, etc. Many often end in deadly situations, etc. There are two questions here that have been asked also for decades, etc. Why does a man beat, demean, etc. a woman that he claims to love, etc.? And why does the woman remain with this abusive man in the relationship? Any good reasoning?