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MS234

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You banned me from a thread. I was not calling the member a little boy with a weak mind.
I was referring to the comment he made a to why men feel a certain way. So my contention was if a man feels that way they must have a weak mind.

You are always so quick to the draw when it's not even necessary.

I was not referring to shikumaru personally not by a long shot.

My comment was a general statement.

I'm sorry you felt is was personal.

I swear on my mother's grave it was not.
 

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It is more than just sex now, it is also female psychology as well as the wetware of women that a man has to contend with.
I was referring to if it's female psychology. If a man is using this the imo he has a weak mind.
So you banning me from this thread for what i did another thread come on.
Having a strong a opinion is now considered emotionl? lol

If you see my statements I'm siding with women.
 

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You banned me from a thread. I was not calling the member a little boy with a weak mind.
I was referring to the comment he made a to why men feel a certain way. So my contention was if a man feels that way they must have a weak mind.

You are always so quick to the draw when it's not even necessary.

I was not referring to shikumaru personally not by a long shot.

My comment was a general statement.

I'm sorry you felt is was personal.

I swear on my mother's grave it was not.


MS234 ... few that get banned from a thread or the forum agree with the decision.

Below is what you said to Shikamaru and sekou kasimu in the paris thread.

You want to call grown men boys and ladies and grandmothers ... while swearing on your mother's grave

that's a weird combination and is not ever going to land within the confines of our rules

additionally - i don't have time to babysit grown people - beseeching them to engage respectfully

either you do or you don't and i deal with what you give me / us / this community

the thread ban stands given the below and please just adjust a little bit

lol then you're a boy with a weak mind.
Just because you have no brain silly woman doesn't mean someone uses weed.
You should know about being robbed of balls little old bitter lady lol you always mentioning balls lol

again don't hate the playa hate the game grandma.

Much Love and Peace.

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Destee
 

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In all fairness a member accused me of taking drugs because of my opinion.

You banned me from a thread for making a comment not directed a member is that right?

Because i called men who think like that weak minds.


Peace
 

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So inferring a member is on drugs is fine in your book as long as it's done respectfully.

Just trying to keep pace here.
 

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MS234 ... i'm going to do what i rarely do ... and unban you from the thread.

but i must first be sure you understand your own violation of our rules

do you?

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Yes of i do. I understand I should have said nothing. (referring to grandma comment)




Thank you.

A member accused me of taking drugs in their funky way. How do I contend with that. I'm being accused of something without evidence.

And to accuse someone of something so bad because of opinion how am i supposed to contend with that?
Lastly I thank you for reconsidering your position.

God knows I'm not here to make extra work for you.
 

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Yes of i do. I understand I should have said nothing. (referring to grandma comment)




Thank you.

A member accused me of taking drugs in their funky way. How do I contend with that. I'm being accused of something without evidence.

And to accuse someone of something so bad because of opinion how am i supposed to contend with that?
Lastly I thank you for reconsidering your position.

God knows I'm not here to make extra work for you.


It's your thoughtful presentation that has me changing my mind - not that i think my decision was wrong.

Pointing to someone else's possible violation will never be acceptable justification for your own rule violation.

If you feel someone is violating a rule - report them - or put them on ignore.

But it never counts presenting someone else's possible violation - after you've been warned on your own violation.

The rules you violated are calling names, personalizing the discussions, and just being disrespectful.

Thanks for being you ... it's what is making the difference this time ... :love:

Removing the thread ban now.

Much Love and Peace.

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Destee
 

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