Black Relationships : cant stop thinking about him


New Member
Feb 15, 2003
ok everyone here is another one of my drama episodes. there is thisguy let call him d-money that i met through an ex boyfriend. me and d-money was real cool together. he loved me alot and even cried over me more then once. we was together while i was with a total dog. well i ended up getting pregnant by the dog and telling d-money about it. come to find out d-money had gotton his girlfriend the ***** pregnant and she was going to be due a few months before me. so d-money told me to get an abortion and move to another state with him. well the second part sounded real good but i couldnt kill a baby even if it was going to be born by a man with nothing but drinking on his mind. so i told him i couldnt do that and that we could still be together and i wasnt looking for nobody to play daddy to my child. he cried i cried we talked and we talked for days to come. i wasnt all totally in love with him but i had major love for him as a good friend. anyway it has been a year since we last spoke and i cant find him any where. i would like to see how he is doing and tell him that i lost my baby do to the baby's father abuse and that i hope things went well for him. i looked up his name yahoo and found several people with the same name as his. i was thinking should i call the numbers too trak him down or just let it be. i know if he heard from me he would be very happy though. please let me know your thought on this thank you

Jan 22, 2001
betwixt and between
Website Consultant
Originally posted by tastygurl
come to find out d-money had gotton his girlfriend the ***** pregnant and she was going to be due a few months before me.
TastyGurl ... referring to people as "*****" is not allowed on this forum. Okay?

I think my response to your other thread would apply to this one as well.




Lyon King Admin.
Mar 21, 2001
what you should understand if he wanted u he would be
around still surely him and his new family has moved on and you should too ......i tell you this for the best LET IT GO !
find ya self a good friend and stop letting ya thoughts of love
have u thinking love
any man that say kill whats so beautiful a life is not a man nor
the best thing for u no matter how he make u feel
U need to open up your third eye and see reality of life
your blind when it comes to love .......U need to be on a meltdown
and seek your own furture get self together

sadly sorry don't call or seek him let him be surely he's with that
woman & child living happy let them be ...


New Member
Feb 18, 2003
i agree. he's away for a reason. and u can't find him for a reason. by the next time u see him, i predict, u won't want to know him.

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