Black Relationships : Brothas would you date an unemployed sista?

jgyknowledge

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I know I answered in the other thread but.....my answer is no. I know that some people think that's harsh and that I'm judging. But, that's not really it. You could be a great person, but if you can't bring anything to the table economically....then you're not for me.

I sense that people who will date unemployed people are either unemployed themselves, or just recently gained employment.

How can an umemployed person afford to date? It has always amazed me how a person with no income can afford to waste money on entertainment when they could be using that money for better purposes.
 

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I don't think that the employment status should be a factor. What if the sista wants to be an "at-home" mother & wife.
Personally, when I was dating, a sista having a job or not did not come into my mind. It was their character that determined whether I stayed or went.
 

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i would as long as they're looking for work

i would even help them find a job

i've dated unemployed women before

i just had to pay for EVERYTHING

i even bought "tampons"

listen i not talking about what i bought

i'm talking - i will buy you what you need

but now with rents averaging $1,500 a month in NYC

i need help now

so you need to be working or at least have access to money

strippers not included sorry

lol
 

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Kamau47 said:
I don't think that the employment status should be a factor. What if the sista wants to be an "at-home" mother & wife.
Personally, when I was dating, a sista having a job or not did not come into my mind. It was their character that determined whether I stayed or went.


don't forget character

it goes along ways buddy
 

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