Amun-Ra : Boob Bars and Mastubation

[queentswana]

i just can't understand how it would be considered cheating. if you see a naked woman on a movie screen, is that cheating? if a woman walks by you on the street and she's dressed like a hoochie and you happen to look at her, is that cheating?

cheating to me is emotional involvement with someone else or physical involvement with someone else. can you explain to me how just looking at someone is cheating?

Hi sistahisis...

If he can't sister ...I can,
You ask, if you see a naked woman on a movie screen, is that cheating? ...NO , because the movies are for people to see man/woman or now a days...anybody.
if a woman walks by you on the street and she's dressed like a hoochie and you happen to look at her, is that cheating? ...NO again, the world is full of hoochie's...maybe even on the very street he live on and the only way he don't look, he got to be blind! in other words, he didn't go out the way to a place (inclosed place) where he knew only hoochie's be, they walk the street 24/7 how can a man Not see them?
It's only concitered cheating if a man has a wife/girlfriend/other half...that he sleeps with every night, leave her home and go to a boob's bar. So my question would be this: Do I not have boob's? and if I'm not shaking them the way he likes to see them shaking...then he got to tell me the way he want me to shake'en and it's his for the asking...for real sister. And let me mention this while I'm on a role...If my husband/man/boyfriend can name ONE thing that another woman can do, ...that I can't do...then he's free to go to the boob's bar. and please remember that this is just my opinion. there's one more thing I need to stress to you, ...I have no shame in my game, all men at one time or another have fantasy's and me knowing that is why I say a man has no reason to step outside of his house unless he want some air. If he want to sleep with "TINA TURNER", ...I'll buy a long wig, or Diana Ross, ...I have no problem tryin to sing...feel me? on that note I think I'll get some rest now because tonight I may have to be "MILLIE JACKSON" ...and that's a job

 

[caramelpython]

Boob bars cheating? That can be true depending on the man and what he is looking for in that bar. I myself have known that outside stimulation can help a married person. I guess since im a Gemini I walk on both sides of this issue and can see the ying and the yang to it all. I do agree that a man or woman should express their desires to their mate in order to optimize their relationship but as stated by brother "Amun-Ra" not all people are willing to give this stimulation to their partner because of their early programing or even religious beliefs. Some men stop in a boob bar just because it is closer to where they work, some go because the atmosphere, and others go because they need that stimulation before going home. No, I am not married and have never been married yet but I do believe in the sacred bond. Nobody want to think their other half is "lusting" over another person other than them unless their relationship is that open. It's like porno movies there are many married people who watch them but Is that cheating?

 

[queentswana]

Okay python...
I guess I kinda have to agree with one of the things you said about early programing and that sorta stuff...perhaps those are the wifes that don't mind.
different strokes, ...for different folks

 

[jazzymoonchild]

When I was a young girl, 20 to be exact, I was married and my ex-husband used to go to the strip bars with his boys. I didn't mind for a few reasons. One, he was a correctional officer, and his friends, the ones that I met, that seemed to be the thing that they did, along with their friends who were cops. Most of these men were older than us, my ex was 26, and married. I am of the mindset that everyone, at some point, needs their free time. I was young, but I was taking care of my business at home. :flamet: That, I never worried about. When he came home, regardless of the stimulus, he was stimulated. He started, I finished. Feel me? If he went every week, I won't lie, I might have some issue with that.

As for the masturbation, I am with Queen on that one. By all means, between my mate's hands and mine, the job should be done and quite well. It definitely depends upon the way your relationship is defined and how people are conditioned.

 

[sistahisis]

a suggestion to women who don't trust their man to occasionally visit a boob bar:


OFFER TO GO WITH HIM :grin: :devil:


his response might give you an idea as to his purpose for going to a boob bar.