Black Women : Another question for the Sisters (Black women)

Ictoan Itkfae

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Peace my Sisters,

I wanted to ask you this because I am curious to hear if Black women would agree or disagree. I don't have any female friends so this I guess is the perfect place to ask questions to hear what my beloved Black Sisters think about things...OK; here is the question:

I once heard a man say, "If a man isn't doing anything in life he doesn't need a woman."

Sisters, do you agree with that statement? Would you share your general thoughts about the statement?

Peace & Brotherly Love,
Bro. Ictoan
 

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Ictoan Itkfae ... Rule #9 - Descriptive Titles Required in Discussions ... and this one is not.

As far as your question goes, i've never heard the statement before.

On the surface, it seems a man not doing anything in life, has more reason for a woman.

Though i have no idea what the person who said it, meant.

What do you think of the statement, since you're the one who heard it?

Much Love and Peace.

:heart:

Destee
 

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What does that mean - "...isn't doing anything in life..."? Does he not have a job? He doesn't have hobbies? Lacks passion? Needs ambition? When was this stated, and why exactly? There's so much that could be interpreted from this...
 

Ictoan Itkfae

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Ictoan Itkfae ... Rule #9 - Descriptive Titles Required in Discussions ... and this one is not.

As far as your question goes, i've never heard the statement before.

On the surface, it seems a man not doing anything in life, has more reason for a woman.

Though i have no idea what the person who said it, meant.

What do you think of the statement, since you're the one who heard it?

Much Love and Peace.

:heart:

Destee

Peace Sis. Destee:). Much Love and Peace to you.

Now that I think about it, I think his exact words were, "If a man isn't doing anything, he doesn't need a woman." I'm not sure if he said, "...in life..." or not.

I think he was coming from a Biblical perspective referring to the nature of women to be "a helpmeet," as the Bible says, for men. He said that "helpmeet" means to help a man meet his obligation of fulfilling the job that God gave him. That means that it is the nature of a woman to want to help or be a helper of a man.

I agree %1000 that if a man isn't doing anything, he doesn't need a woman because he doesn't need any help to do nothing.

Can I ask, what makes you say "a man not doing anything in life, has more reason for a woman." I think I know what you meant but I'm not sure...

Much Peace and Love.
Bro. Ictoan
 

Ictoan Itkfae

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What does that mean - "...isn't doing anything in life..."? Does he not have a job? He doesn't have hobbies? Lacks passion? Needs ambition? When was this stated, and why exactly? There's so much that could be interpreted from this...

Warm Greetings Sis. Angela22,

As I told Sis. Destee, now, I think his exact words were, "if a man isn't doing anything he doesn't need a woman." You can refer to that post to Sis. Destee to see what I think he meant. I think he said it in an effort to enlighten his listeners about male-female relationships; he is a preacher.
 

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