Black Relationships : A Man Living With His Parents or Someone

legit-writer

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Ladies: At what age do you think a man should have his own place to stay? If he is past the 35 mark, and he has spent most of his life living with someone and never truly had his own place to stay, or a stable job, would you date a man like that? If so, how long? If not, why? For the older generation here, if he is in his 50s still doesn't have a real job, and relying on a hobby (a book or writing music) to get published and make some money, yet he is living with someone else, doesn't have his own place. Where do you all draw the line? Is this where the ladies "step up" and pays yours and his bill by going out working, while he is sitting at home on the computer all day, or what? Would love to see what your responses are!
 

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I don't date grown men who live with their parents....
Correction, I understand some folks go through hard times and setbacks, especially if they got laid off from their job, had a house fire...etc...that's understandable if you gotta stay some where like your parent's temporarily.
But outside of that....Never.
You're not working cause you're lazy...never.
 

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Ladies: At what age do you think a man should have his own place to stay? If he is past the 35 mark, and he has spent most of his life living with someone and never truly had his own place to stay, or a stable job, would you date a man like that? If so, how long? If not, why?

ummmm, No... he's either lazy, or mental to not have his own financial means to live on his own.


For the older generation here, if he is in his 50s still doesn't have a real job, and relying on a hobby (a book or writing music) to get published and make some money, yet he is living with someone else, doesn't have his own place.

In the meantime, he better have some kind of financial means to take care of himself. i mean,.. how is he going to eat, pay bill, buy clothes, fix the car if it breaks down,.etc,...

Where do you all draw the line? Is this where the ladies "step up" and pays yours and his bill by going out working, while he is sitting at home on the computer all day, or what? Would love to see what your responses are!

Just what grown lady in these days time is going to be taking care of unemployed man? I'ono, i know i can't do it... times are hard and food and bills are getting expensive. Its gonna take two people to just pay the light bill.

You know what i just had this conversating with my son... I just told my son (hes 18) now that he's gonna have a child he really needs to step his hustle up..
 

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what if he was financially stable (trust fund well to do kinda cat), chose not to work but rather stay in the house taking care of his elderly sick parents, and had a older mentally ill sibling also to care for?
would he THEN be worthy of your time?...
 

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