Amun-Ra : $50,000 Wedding Ain't Worth It!

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the price to pay !!!
stakes too high
it's now days all about the beauty of it
and what cost most to make it a day to
remember but when it clash down a wast
of money just to say i do and then i don't !
 

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Good Point

Rich is right--black marriages last even less time--this is not a good bet in anybody's book, but that doesn't stop us from the show--Ra

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indeed 50k is a lot
yes it's true that so many end so soon as fast as they get hooked they lose i study it to some point and found that
Black marriages crack faster then whites but both to crash
more then the records show
what happen to a simple wedding and fun as love is bonded
it's the money stuff i guess that rip bonds apart like paper
ya on point ............it's true how marriages fails
out of 100 about 70 end in devoice a total combine of all creeds
 

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the thought is deep and so many broken homes
marrage lasting only months the value is smaller then the price
 

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I am doing about 75K myself, I have went up from my initial cost of 50K. I want to make the union the best memory of our lives, I will always make money, and my happiness is not going to be stifled by it.

IF you can afford it great! If not, you need to marry within your budget. If I do not have the funding that I need for my 50K to 75K wedding, a playa will just save until lol! I got me a lil budget for it right now, so I hope it can continue to grow.
 

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it's all good brutha but even if i did have it , I will not pay that much money
to get married to me it's a pure waste that money can go on a house for future living
or to help finance the new family and 99.8% of the time who get all this money
the whites !
making a grand killing from many pockets .

Good luck brutha Manasiac keep saving on the budget tip .
 

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First of all, If I am paying 50k to 75k for a wedding, I will already have purchased a house and created money for the future kids and myself and da wife. Usually you will not spend that kind of money on a wedding and be broke thereafter. Also you can purchase wedding items from Blacks, there are brothers and sisters in the wedding buisness. :)
 

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that's true but only a hand full and there are many that don't think
ahead as you are and they just jump the broom for that moment of sweet
beauty it's to much for a few hours today living just too high for that kind
of spending , but i feel you big time

Did you know there was like 80% of the couples who felt they would be set
and had all the twist and turns worked out and once married they found
themselves in debt within the first year which have started family problems
i've witness it more then i like to see .
 

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I would not spend a lot on a wedding. It indeed is not worth it. I think it's more for show than anything. It's not going to make your wedding anymore memorable than it would be if you spent $10,000. If it does make it more memorable, then maybe there's something wrong with the relationship. A wedding above all should be about the two people getting married, not the show that goes along with it. All these big time celebrities spend millions on their weddings and turn around and divorce a year or two later. There are way too many things you can do with that money...and if anything...save it. You can never have too much money in the bank. To throw it away just because you can (at the moment) is foolish. I understand that people want someting to remember, and that's all good and that's their business, but after it's all said and done, you'll might miss that $50-$100k more than you remember where it went. Nothing is guaranteed. Money comes and goes no matter how much potential and money making savvy you may have. Ever heard the saying :happens:
 

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that is so true kente.....big spending on a wedding is not worth the
later problem many have and will face in life , simply too much i agree
it should be about the two in question not the top choice fancy wedding
and glamor

And to think for a few hours whewwwwww!!!
 

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$$RICH$$ said:
the price to pay !!!
stakes too high
it's now days all about the beauty of it
and what cost most to make it a day to
remember but when it clash down a wast
of money just to say i do and then i don't !
Some women spend elaborately because they want to show off they have a man.

If a couple wants to spend a lot of money put it in a house not in a ceremony that's going to last one day!
 

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