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    Black Relationships : Any thoughts?

    I'm a woman and when I hear the word submissive it brings to mind the word control.. to be submissive, according to the dictionary, is to be meek and obedient..so if a woman is to be submissive in a marriage then she would have to be both, in relation to her husband..therefore in my eyes she...
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    Amun-Ra : Lesbians!

    Ra... I had to laugh at your previous post and what you had to say about your (and most probably nearly every other red blooded males) fantasy...I have heard it said by so many men, that their ultimate fantasy is to be in a threesome with two women... and I have also heard so many times...
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    Black Women : What do you mean when you say ... "Be a Man"

    My thoughts on this are much the same as Zerogravitys.. I think it is a derogatory term to tell any man to "be a man"...because who decided what "being a man" entails...the term would have individual/personal meanings for everyone..so when we say to someone to "be a man" aren't we really...
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    Black People : LeBron James & 50 Cent...Public Enemies #1

    BE.. could another factor be that the entertainment and sports industries offer more of a natural high, more excitement, more focus on that one person, with large amounts of money as a reward, and could it be that these young people are fooled into believing they can reach these heights...
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    Black Poetry : she noddin' on heroine

    this is a sad situation to be in... while many might say that drug addicts have only themselves to blame, I always think sometimes some of us are not strong enough to deal with what life throws our way, so we escape, into drugs/alcohol whatever..and if we're lucky we find our way home...
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    Black Relationships : Ten Reasons Men don't get married...

    I'll agree wholeheartedly with that too... ( sitting over here in the Amen corner getting my box of mushy tomatoes ready for the next time Kem pokes his head through the door) K
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    Black Relationships : Ten Reasons Men don't get married...

    and I agree wholeheartedly.... K
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    Black Poetry : Renewal - ATTENTION POETS!!! NEED YOUR FEEDBACK ON THIS ONE!!!

    I also see it from two different angles... it may be about dying in the physical sense.. but it could also talk about being in a deep depression where you are aware of your surroundings but not responsive...the light you see could be the new you emerging from the darkness..your spiritual...
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    Black Relationships : Ten Reasons Men don't get married...

    NNQueen... like all things in life there is good and bad.... it's a bit unrealistic to put all women or all men into one group.. sure there are women like Kem continually describes, out there, but there will most likely to be a balance of men who are their equal version out there too...
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    Quiet Poetry Lounge : My Right, My Wrong

    we are our own harshest critics....and others cannot judge us as well as we can ourselves... good piece... K
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    Black Poetry : when the womb is full

    I love the analogy between the womb and life ( of a woman )... it is said that we cannot retain all memories, so we only remember those which have had an impact in some way, so too for life experiences I think, we go through them for a reason, and sometimes that reason is not clear...and...
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    Black Relationships : Ten Reasons Men don't get married...

    Regina.... try injecting the word some into your statement.... some women are easy..that doesn't mean the whole female population is one large of group of you know whats...because remember if you imply all, the implication is on you as well as us... and while some men most probably do...
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    Black Relationships : Ten Reasons Men don't get married...

    Kem... please float back down to earth for a minute so you can read my next comment!! I agreed with one comment you made....that does not in any way make me agreeable on everything you say...so recall all those emails or send out different ones to set the world straight!! and while I...
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    Black Relationships : Ten Reasons Men don't get married...

    Kemetstry... you being right is a matter of opinion as far as I'm concerned...and my opinion differs to yours....your way or the highway huh!!!!!!!..well I'll take the back road... K
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    Black Poetry : i hate it when you do that

    I've been here...and it hurts....you let your heart soar with hope and then...it plummets back to the ground with a big thump.... K
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